Advice...

After a long crying session after seeing the sms, i understood some tings..

My advice to those who are getting married..and do not follow my footsteps..

1. After you verbally tell ur friends ur wedding date, DO NOT make assumption that they will take note and remember..

2. A few days before your wedding, no matter how bz you are, call up those who didnt make rsvp with you even though you have send them invitation cards (do not make assumption that when the person receive the card, didnt response means will come)

3. If possible and time permits, try to meet up wif friends and pass them the invitation cards...

4. Try to send out the invitation cards as earlier as possible.. as some people will find it rude that you send them late.. they thought you are treating them as replacements eventhough you had metioned to them on your wedding date before..

Going through today is tough.. I made some assumptions which I thought friends will take note and it turned out very very bad.. and receive hurting sms.. where people saying i rude, i juz wana fill up tables, asking me to grow up etc... If i say everyting is miscommunication and wrong assumptions made, will people believe? What had i done to deserve all these?

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Yes. I cried when i saw those sms.. and im still sobbing when im typing out this blog..Pat called and jio me out for kopi when he heard me sobbed.. He was shocked.. as everyting was juz a small matter..he told me he didn't have a prob as i also told him when i meet up wif him.. well.. i tink its individual... Different people look at things differently...

People thinks tat i bo xim where my table list was done since last yr.. Haiz... no matter how i explain also no use now.. it had oreadi happened...

Well.. life still goes on.. juz let time wash all these bad memories away..

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*Do not make assumptions..*